True Love or True Calling, Which Is Missing More in Your LIfe?

The pursuit of true calling and true love are the biggest decisions in one’s life and it’s amazing to me how most of us never answer either call.

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You can settle for less than you know is possible or pretend that you don’t even want to go for it. Having done both over the years I don’t know which is more damaging to the spirit.

If you’re settling or if you’ve given up in one of these areas you may not want to keep reading because considering these deeper truths is uncomfortable and we were taught to run from hurt and discomfort. But if you’ve been reading me then you know that discomfort is a gift for you to see more clearly.

It’s far more honorable to pursue these callings and fall short than it is to never expose your heart to the vulnerabilities of deep fulfillment and connection.


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From the viewpoint of making the right decision for you, I’ve found that the process and the considerations are strikingly similar in pursuing both true love and true calling. I bring a unique perspective and extensive experience in both since I began as a relationship coach and then moved into career and business startup coaching.

Really big decisions are truly about self-honor. Deep within you know where you’ve been untruthful to yourself.

I’m writing about this now because I want to help you make the decision you’ve been afraid to make.
If your relationship in love or career is lifeless you can see your optimal way out or see an honorable way to stay that brings you alive once more. 
From direct experience, I can tell you that opening your heart to the truth of your deepest desires is really your only choice.  Vulnerability starts as a gut check choice and evolves into a regular practice that feels wonderfully enlivening because it puts you in the rarefied company of those who decide to go for it.

Allow these stirring words from Teddy Roosevelt to be your rallying cry.

It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.

Soon you’ll be able to register for an online event to make the right decision for you. In the meantime know this. It’s more than possible to see an optimal decision that you can’t yet see. And you don’t have to get ready or wait for the right time because if you’re living less of a life than you can live – your time to embrace more is now.

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